So that day at lunch I was venting to Jessi about having to wait that much longer. Jessi and I immediately got online and found that Fetal Fotos (I HATE the name of that place,) was only $59 for a basic 2D package. Plus, I found a coupon, so it was less than 50 after all was said and done. I made an appointment for the VERY NEXT DAY! That was so awesome, because there was less than 24 hours of waiting/anticipation leading up to the big reveal.
So, at 16 weeks pregnant, the day before Thanksgiving, Dave, Isaac and I headed in to find out! I had some mixed feelings about having a boy vs. girl. I won't lie, I was really hoping girl because, knowing this was my last child, I just thought it would be nice to have one of each, have the experience of raising both, and create a strong female bond. Also, there are so many boys on both sides of our families (mostly grown ones, that is.) This will be the second grandchild on both sides as well. My one grandmother who is still living has 7 great grandsons and one girl.
On the other hand, I knew that if it was a boy, I'd love it just the same and be just as excited the day it was born. I knew that Isaac would have a brother, and I think there is something special about having at least 2 of the same gender. They seem to have a closer bond growing up and into adulthood (in general...though not always!) I also was well aware that we have everything we need for a boy - no need to buy much, plus, by now we are boy experts, right? (ha!) I know that it's all chance, but between so many boys in the family and my gut feeling, I was pretty certain it was going to be a boy.
So, when it was 150% confirmed that it was a boy (seriously, he was giving every view possible to make sure we knew,) I layed there on the ultrasound bed and smiled. I was a little surprised by my reaction. I thought that I might be bummed and a little sad, but I truly wasn't. I felt more in awe that in 16 weeks my body (okay, with a little help from Dave...) had created this perfectly shaped tiny 4 ounce baby with all these moving, working parts. It seemed like HE already had a personality. It immediately sunk in that I'd be living with males the rest of my life, and I haven't had any "what if" or "I wish" thoughts since. I am excited to have two boys and watch them grow up together. I am excited to continue/develop a strong bond with all my boys (Dave, Isaac and baby Mcgee.) I'm excited to meet this little man, and if he's anything like his big brother, I know I'll be entertained for life! :)
I've had plenty of people tell me to keep going 'til I get a girl. To that, I say, WHY? 2 kids is perfect for us. Plus, this gives me the perfect excuse to give all the brothers crap - they will need to be the ones to provide one of the female variety.
23 more weeks to go until Baby McGee joins us! Here are the ultrasound picks. I am super lame and don't have a scanner, so these are pictures of pictures! So horrible, I know.
| Knees bent, from the bottom up, showing us the goods. |
| Dave was a little obsessed with the tech showing us the brain over and over. He loved seeing both hemispheres. It is pretty awesome, though. |
| This one is my favorite. He was reaching his arm around like he was scratching his neck. Plus, profile shots look much cuter when they're still in the womb. |
